Oh yes, I have been AWOL and for that I do apologize. Somehow the weeks have flown by and even with the best of intentions, I have not submitted any new postings.
The past few months have been a reminder to me of the consequences of too much stress: not sleeping well, not eating as well as I should, not scheduling my time well, not focusing well, not always following up the way that I should...not a good way to live life. Even the health coach sometimes has to take a step back and re-evaluate her response to life.
Hans Selye, M.D., Ph.D.,D.Sc., was one of the first researchers to study the physical consequences of too much stress and as such is known as "the father of the stress field". The simple explanation is that Dr. Selye found that when we are overly stressed, our bodies maintain a constant "fight or flight" state with all of the accompanying hormonal and physical changes. This "fight or flight" response is essential to our survival as a species! It prepared our ancestors to run away from tigers and other predators, and while our stressors are different today, we also need “fight or flight” in order to survive significant threats.
What is important to know is that our bodies are not meant to be in the "fight or flight" state constantly. When that is the case, our bodies never enter a vital rest period and over time, our bodies will exhaust themselves. While reading Dr. Selye’s research is very interesting, it is not required in order to understand that being constantly stressed is not a good thing.
So, what to do? There are countless resources available today that can help with stress reduction; the key is to find what works for you. I can share what I have done and perhaps it will help you also.
· I absolutely love classical choral music and have been listening to it a lot.
· I am exercising more.
· I am eating better.
· I make sure that I laugh out loud even if I don’t always feel like doing so.
· I make sure that I stay connected to family and friends, especially those wonderful grandchildren!
· I take slow, deep breaths whenever I start to feel stressed (especially when I am in traffic…)
· I take quality supplements.
· I am reading more, both fiction and non-fiction.
So, where are things now? Our house is on the market, I am still in Maryland and David is working in Virginia. Other than being apart during the week, things are more stable than they have been for some time and that is a good thing!
A favorite saying of mine is “Let me live as a child in the sun”. Imagine a child playing outside on a beautiful, clear day; this child has no cares or worries and is truly present in this moment. May all of us be blessed to live our lives as that “child in the sun”.
I wish you peace, joy and many blessings, Jana